I was reading someone else's blog today and it was about what they wanted in a boyfriend. I find it pretty funny really when people have qualifications of what they want in a guy or girl. It's like having OCD just with a person. To me, I think it all comes down to what happens and who is the one that makes you smile and say, I want them. I mean, sure I would love a girl who could play guitar or loved the same music as me but really..its not something a girl has to have. I just love laughing at those people who do that because they are going to be so busy looking for the person that fits what they want perfectly that the best one will just pass on by without a second glace, which we all know is what it is all about, the girl that blows you away and you need a second look.
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Hmm that sounds like lust not love.
Well maybe its love at first sight and so I wanted a second, hmmmm?
How do you fall in love with someone without knowing them?
yeah- I don't think that's possible. you could be attracted to them, but love is deeper and includes who they really are... through and through, which is something you wouldn't know at first sight.
I agree. I don't think you can truely love someone if you don't know their true character. Just look at Samson and Delilah. Samson fell in lust with Delilah, not love, and she not only betrayed him but left him for dead at the hands of his enemies. Samson said "I want her" but was that love or lust? Would Samson had fallen in "love" with her if he had known that she would betray him to the Philistines?
No I think that love is something that happens when you meet that person that God has chosen for you and if you listen to God he will let you know who they are.
I don't think anyone will "miss" the one that God has picked for them. They are just not willing to listen and hand their hearts over to God. I think you misunderstood that person's blog. The qualities they listed were merely a wish list of what they would like in their future partner. They listed those because those qualities make them happy and they want to share their happines with the one that they love. Now its up to God weither or not that the person they end up with actually has those qualities or not. But while we are waiting we can wish and hope. Are you going to be the one to burst this persons bubble of hope?
tru-dat.
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